[She crosses her arms (more to support herself than an expression of anger). Once again, he's completely missing the point.]

My rules haven't changed. [She hesitates. Everything feels so fragile and uncertain and she feels like whatever she says is going to be The Wrong Thing. But she has to say it anyway.]

I'm just saying, you can't accuse me of using you when I'm just doing what you want me to do. It's not fair.

If you want something to change, you have to tell me. [Call it a rule if you want, but it seems like common sense to her.]